Being the System

Because Your Child’s Independent Living Can’t Be Left to Chance, And No One Can Lead It Like You Can.

You’re a parent who sees the big picture — the kind of leader who can spot the gaps, anticipate the road ahead, and push for what matters. But when it comes to your child’s future, the systems around them are scattered, reactive, and often working against each other.

You’ve already spent years trying to piece it all together — chasing solutions, bridging the gaps, and hoping this time things will align. But trial and error is exhausting, and your child’s independence is too important to leave to guesswork.

As your Independent Living Guide, I bring the clarity, depth, and strategic leadership to challenge what’s not working, unite every moving part, and design systems that actually serve the vision. While the process can be complex, my role is to simplify it — cutting through the noise so you can focus on what matters most without feeling overwhelmed.

Being the System is about stepping fully into your role as the leader of this vision, knowing you have the tools, structure, and strategy to make independent living not just a possibility, but a reality.

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That’s what Being the System is about:

You become the central leader who holds the vision, unites every moving part, and ensures each decision, process, and relationship serves the ultimate goal — your child’s independence.

I’m here to make that role not only possible, but clear, strategic, and manageable.

Being the System
Your Role, Simplified
Independent living doesn’t happen because one system works well. It happens when all the systems in your child’s life work together under one vision.

The Three Pillars of Being the System

YOURSELF
YOUR SYSTEM

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INDEPENDENT LIVING PLAN

(The Leader's Foundation)

(Aligning The Players)

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YOUR STRUCTURES

(Making It Sustainable)

We start with you — your vision, strengths, and leadership role in this journey.

Clarify your child’s long-term independence goals.

✨ Identify what you need — skills, mindset, or support — to lead with confidence.

✨ Anchor every decision to the bigger picture.

Self

Systems

Structures

Then we bring the people, services, and processes into alignment.

✨ Audit every system (school, therapy, providers, family routines) for gaps or misalignment.

✨ Establish one shared vision so everyone’s working toward the same outcome.

✨ Remove duplication, inefficiency, and conflict between systems.

Finally, we design the practical structures that hold everything in place.

Build custom routines, supports, and checkpoints to track progress.

✨ Create a flexible, resilient plan that can adapt as your child grows.

✨ Ensure no single change derails the overall vision.

You may be:

✨ A visionary, purpose-driven parent carrying emotional, logistical, and spiritual weight no one else can see

✨ A professional, business owner, or creative who’s tired of choosing between your calling and your caregiving

✨ Someone who’s given up pieces of yourself in order to hold everything else and now you want to reclaim your wholeness

✨ Living with the quiet ache of “What happens to my child when I’m gone?”

✨ Feels unseen by systems that reduce your child to a diagnosis, and you to a case manager

✨ Is quietly asking: Why me? Why this path? What is this here to teach me? Who do I need to be to raise this child?

✨ Wondering if there’s a more aligned, sustainable way and you know in your bones… there has to be

This isn’t about pushing harder.
It’s about doing life differently. By designing the system around who you are, not what the world expects.

If you’ve ever whispered to yourself…

“I’ve been holding it all, but who’s holding me?”
“How do I keep living my purpose and take care of my child?”
“I can’t keep doing this like I have been… something has to change.”

Then yes, this program is for you.

The 6 -Month Journey

Six months gives us the time to create real, lasting change without rushing and without dragging it out.
We move through four strategic phases, each building on the last, so by the end you have a clear plan, aligned systems, and sustainable structures that keep working long after we’re done.

Weekly 1:1 Coaching Sessions

Soul-rooted, strategic conversations tailored to your current reality. These sessions hold space for clarity, decision-making, emotional liberation, and aligned action.

Self-Guided Integration Tools

Your own sacred audio space. Binge deep insights, mindset shifts, and grounding tools between sessions: wherever you are, whenever you need them.

Private Podcast Library

Gentle guidance for the moments in between.
Think: journal prompts, energetic check-ins, and curated resources, all aligned with your custom plan and pace.

Ongoing Support Between Calls

Need to voice note a hard moment or celebrate a win?
You’ll have private access to me for support and clarity in real time. You’re never navigating this alone.

System & Structure Mapping Sessions

This isn’t a one-size-fits-all program. We build your plan together, informed by your lived experience, capacity, and intuition. You walk away with a life plan that fits.

Customized Life Plan, Designed With You

We audit what’s draining you and rebuild from the ground up. From routines to support networks to future planning. We co-create solutions that work in your actual life

Bonus

6 Months Free Access To Being The System Community

The transformation doesn’t stop at six months, and neither does the support.

When you complete the Being The System program, you’ll receive 6 additional months of complimentary access to our private community space, where you’ll stay connected to:

🌱 Ongoing Growth
Stay anchored in the practices, rhythms, and insights you’ve built without starting over or losing momentum.

🧑🏾‍🤝‍🧑🏽 Like-Hearted Community
Surround yourself with others who get it. This is a space for reflection, encouragement, and shared wisdom among fellow changemakers and caregivers.

📆 Live Monthly Gatherings
Optional community check-ins to reconnect, realign, and refuel your vision: because sometimes, all you need is to be reminded you’re not alone.

🎧 Exclusive Library Access
Get continued access to private podcast episodes, tools, and archived teachings to revisit as needed, especially when life gets lifey.

🖤 Soft Landing, Ongoing Rise
You’ve built something sacred. The community helps you live it, deepen it, and keep rising gently and steadily in your own time.

The 6 -Month Journey

Six months gives us the time to create real, lasting change without rushing and without dragging it out.
We move through four strategic phases, each building on the last, so by the end you have a clear plan, aligned systems, and sustainable structures that keep working long after we’re done.

Phase 1: Vision & Audit

We start by defining what independent living looks like for your child and assessing your current reality—no matter what age your child is.

  • Clarify the vision in detail.

  • Identify strengths, gaps, and misalignments.

  • Begin uniting your leadership role with the goal.

Phase 4: Implementation & Refinement

We bring all the players — schools, providers, services, and family — into one shared vision.

  • Set unified goals.

  • Remove duplication and conflicts.

  • Establish clear communication pathways between systems.

Phase 2: System Alignment

We put the plan into action and fine-tune it.

  • Test real-life application.

  • Strengthen weak points.

  • Equip you to lead without dependence on me.

Phase 3: Structure Design

We create the tools, routines, and checkpoints that make the vision sustainable.

  • Build flexible plans that adapt over time.

  • Integrate support for both child and family.

  • Ensure the plan holds even when one piece changes.

By the end of six months, you’re not just managing disconnected systems. You are the system that holds the vision and ensures every moving part serves your child’s path to independent living.

Option 1

$3,000 USD

One Time Payment

✔ Weekly 1:1 live coaching sessions

✔ Bi-weekly group calls for connection and learning

✔ Private client portal with resources and replays

✔ Customized Independent Living Plan designed with you

✔ Lifetime access to the Being The System framework

Exclusive Bonuses for Pay-in-Full Clients

✨ Extra 3 months of group calls and community support after the program ends

✨ One private re-evaluation session within 12 months to adjust your plan if life changes

$550 USD

Monthly Payment

Option 1

✔ Weekly 1:1 live coaching sessions

✔ Bi-weekly group calls for connection and learning

✔ Private client portal with resources and replays

✔ Customized Independent Living Plan designed with you

✔ Lifetime access to the Being The System framework

The Future Won’t Wait

The truth is, your child’s path to independent living will be shaped by the systems and decisions you lead today.

If you don’t set the vision and align the pieces now, the risk is that others — with less insight, less commitment, and less understanding of your child — will shape it for you.

Being the System isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about making every action count.

It’s about having a clear, strategic, and sustainable plan that holds strong no matter what changes.

It’s about knowing that when your child’s future is on the line, you’ve led it with intention, clarity, and conviction.

You already have the vision.

Now it’s time to lead it.